I first met Tammy Dao 40 years ago when she became the first Vietnamese student ever admitted into Chestnut Hill College (CHC). Her college friends contacted me because they said she had a touching human interest story. They were right. Dao was a student at CHC from 1986 to 1991, earning a business degree and then working at Enterprise Rental Car Co. for 10 years.

But in 1987, when Dao was attending CHC, there was a horrific fire in the school’s cafeteria. As a result of the fire, the cafeteria was closed for months, and students had to find other places to eat. (Dao babysat for many families in Chestnut Hill to earn spending money for meals.)

At the time, Dao’s friends (CHC was all-female at the time) wanted to give her a special treat, so they took her to Vietnam Restaurant, 221 N. 11th St. in Chinatown, which had been getting rave reviews in the local media. While the students were seated in the restaurant, the handsome young man who took their order was Benny Lai, son of the restaurant’s owners. He took an instant liking to Dao, who was notoriously shy.

Her friends from CHC, who could not help noticing how smitten Lai was with her, decided to play matchmaker, so they gave Dao’s phone number to him when she was in the ladies room, and he quickly followed it up by calling and inviting her and her friends back to the restaurant. “I always gave them free desserts,” Lai told the Local later. “The first time I saw Tammy, I knew she was the right one for me.”

Dao recalled, “My friends actually did the flirting on my behalf.”

One thing led to another, as it often does, and the young couple soon became an item. They wound up getting married after two years of dating, and they now have two children, Jonathan, 30, and Justin, 26.

“I am grateful to CHC,” Lai said. “If it wasn’t for her school friends looking out for her, we never would have met.”

“I loved Chestnut Hill College,” said Dao, whose father, an interpreter for the U.S. military during the Vietnam War, was killed in the Tet Offensive in 1968, six months before she was born. “We had very small classes at CHC and got a lot of individual attention. Also, I made lots of friends and got along with everybody.”

Lai’s parents, Nhu Lai and Thuyen Luu, had escaped from Vietnam by boat with their eight children in 1978. Benny was just a toddler at the time. The family had traveled in a small wooden boat, cramped together with other families, without sufficient food, water or fuel. After a long and arduous trip, the Lais spent nine months in a refugee camp in Malaysia before gaining access to the United States.

None of the family members spoke English. They had suffered unimaginable losses, but when the parents arrived in Philadelphia in 1979, they worked around the clock, like so many immigrants, and by 1982 they had saved enough money to open a small grocery store in West Philadelphia.

In 1984, they saw a new opportunity and started Vietnam Restaurant on the edge of Chinatown. Despite its diminutive size and simple decor, the restaurant soon earned a reputation for outstanding food. In fact, it could barely contain all the people who wanted a taste of the cuisine, which at the time was new to most Philadelphians. Vietnamese cuisine is regarded by nutritionists as very healthy because of its reliance on fresh ingredients, light cooking methods and generous amounts of fresh herbs, vegetables and natural antioxidants.

By 1989, his parents had handed the business over to Benny, who now oversees the restaurant and helped it grow into the space people still enjoy 42 years after its debut. According to the James Beard Foundation, “From barbecue platters laden with grilled meats, stuffed grape leaves and Philly’s crispiest spring rolls to vermicelli bowls, fragrant noodle soups, lemongrass stir-fries and clay pots sizzling with caramelized pork, Vietnam Restaurant’s kitchen has remained a model of consistency for decades.”

In a typical Yelp review, Blair D., of Philadelphia, wrote, “One of my favorite restaurants in Philadelphia! It’s been consistently good for decades. Great food, good service, nice atmosphere. I love it!” Out of more than 1,000 Google reviews, the average rating is 4.7 out of 5.

Vietnam Restaurant is one of only six restaurants in the United States that was awarded the prestigious 2024 James Beard Foundation’s America’s Classics Award, an honor given to “locally owned restaurants that serve quality food, have timeless appeal and reflect the character of their communities.” It also has been named “Best Ethnic Restaurant’ in the city by Philadelphia magazine.

In November 2009, the Lais opened a second restaurant, Vietnam Cafe, at 814 S. 47th St. on the same block as the family’s original grocery store. It is also still thriving.

For more information, visit eatatvietnam.com or call 215-592-1163. Len Lear can be reached at lenlear@chestnuthilllocal.com.